About HFC

Still figuring it out.

High Functioning Chaos comes from our life: marriage, parenting, neurodivergence, work, school, and the things that don’t fit neatly around any of it.

Brandon

Husband, dad, student. Mostly a curious trash panda with autism, ADHD, and an unreasonable need to know why the thing isn’t working. I’ll dig through the mess, find something useful, and probably come out with six more questions. My background spans logistics, operations, IT, compliance consulting and auditing, law enforcement, and security. I’m also a U.S. Army combat veteran. There’s real experience behind the rummaging, and I put it to work building HFC.

I’m studying Computer Information Systems, with plans to continue into project management. I’m also an avid reader who keeps learning outside the classroom: researching, building, testing, and asking questions. HFC’s website and planner put that learning to work. Balancing school, work, and family takes commitment, and I’m proud of the work I’m putting in.

I’ve been in and out of therapy as needed through every era of my life. Educating myself, getting support, and taking another look at what I thought I knew are part of the deal. I bring experience and curiosity to these conversations, along with my own mistakes. Knowing how to fix a process doesn’t mean I’ve got all of life figured out.

Monica

Monica is a Navy veteran, twice divorced, and taking a fresh step into therapy as she rediscovers herself. She brings her own lived experience, warmth, and reflection to conversations about relationships, starting over, and figuring out who you are along the way.

She joins as a co-host and contributor when she’s available. Her own voice, her own perspective, and room to figure things out without having every answer ready.

Nevaeh

Nevaeh is a high school junior with three years of American Sign Language (ASL) study and an enthusiasm for drama. She brings her own interests, voice, and perspective to HFC.

She joins as a co-host and contributor when she’s available and wants to, with room to sit things out. Being part of the family doesn’t mean every part of her life belongs online.

Why we share it.

We can’t undo our mistakes. We can be honest about them, own our part, and share the tools we wished we had sooner. If that helps someone else face a similar day with another option, this has a point.

Family and trusted voices contribute when it makes sense. Some parts of life stay private.

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